I got tired of church a long time ago. I use to be a senior consular in a catholic youth ministry and all I ever herd from the adults was "your going to hell" for almost anything you did or believed in, and that was the message they wanted us to pass on to the younger members of the ministry. I just couldn't stand it, they weren't teaching anything worth listening too. They just wanted you to fear religion and NEVER question it. Its more like the Catholic corporation, give me money, do what I say and you'll go to heaven ... maybe. I use to get a lot of flack for my beliefs, being pro-choice was a major one, same with my piercings and tattoos, they didn't want me to receive communion because I "ruined the body God gave me." Ugh religion, I could go on for hours about it!